I had always had an interest in human behaviour, and this lead me to enrol as a mature student to study psychology. I had a voracious appetite for knowledge and even kept coming off my pain medication to study as the meds made my brain ‘fuzzy’. Over the next few years, I gained many qualifications, including a First Class Honours Degree in Psychology, specialising in Behavioural Psychology. I completed the Master’s Degree studies at Sheffield and finished my research studies two years later. Through this long journey I began to find my true identity and came to the realisation that it wasn’t just the additional letters after my name that enabled me to help people, but my own particular life experiences.
I have a unique approach to helping people. I’ve been there, I’ve sat in ‘the therapy chair’, I’ve experienced the terrors of panic, and the utter loneliness you feel. Obviously, everyone’s emotional journey is different, but understanding my own path has given me a unique insight and empathy towards everyone I work with. The phrase ‘physician heal thyself’ epitomises my life. Yes, I had the qualifications, but before I could heal others, I had to learn how to heal myself. Sitting in the wheelchair day after day, staring at the same wallpaper, no longer the provider for the family, I’ve known the darkest of days.
Having been in a wheelchair for 11 years, in 2011 I had surgery to remove scar tissue. Then, after a three-year struggle to walk, I gained my independence from the wheelchair, and I am now a prolific rambler. Would I choose to spend eleven years in a wheelchair? Of course not! However, I now live every day to the full and feel truly blessed for the life that I have, and if I can share my knowledge, experience and expertise with you to help you find peace, happiness and fulfilment in your life, then my life’s journey has not been a wasted one.
In addition to my therapy work, I take on a limited number of PDIs and ADIs who are perhaps on their final attempt at their Part 3 or Standards Check. My unique skillset enables me to prepare them mentally so they can control their test nerves and anxiety, and also to the standard required by the DVSA.
Since 2016, Diane and I have worked closely together to design our own unique therapy system, and L of a way 2 Pass Programme, which we then tailor to each individual person that we work with. Our combination of different therapeutical interventions is the culmination of decades of research, training and working with 1000’s of clients, and this ensures that what we offer is totally different to any other therapy available in the UK today. For this reason, we are not associated with a specific psychological or therapeutical organisation.
At L of a way 2 Pass we like to think we’re friendly & approachable, and we are always happy to help where we can with advice. It may be that the various services we offer can help you, and if not we can often point you in the right direction, so please feel free to contact us via the form below.